Your Life Jacket Through Divorce.
Learn what your doctor, lawyer or friends won't tell you to your face.
Are you 40 something, alone, stressed out, scared, have children and going through a divorce? Then you should read this.
- What is happening is awful, tragic and unfair.
- The uncertainty and fear of losing everything are driving you to suicidal thoughts.
- The absolute pain of this failing relationship feels like someone is using a blunt knife.
- Stabbing you in the back, and slowly turning it inch by inch...
You're losing all worthiness and self-respect...
Probably much like your path so far?
The more you try to control things- the more chaos shows up in your life. Every possible thing that could go wrong is tumbling down around you. It is devastating enough to try and split your belongings. And work something out around the children. Now your emotions are running away with you...
You can't control them and some days you feel you are beyond yourself. Suddenly you realize your head is twitching every now and again.
You look around, wondering who saw it... You are defeated and totally drained. You are suffering and feel like you are losing yourself in this process. When anxiety has taken over all control in your life and you are not sure you can even think straight, let alone still make decisions. You are on the edge...
You think to yourself... Are you totally losing your mind? How long will this go on? How long will you be able to handle it? I need to stay sane for my children. I need to be there for them. Then the family and friends give their 5 cents opinion, but do you really want to hear it? You are busy trying to solve your own problems, not their opinions.
You feel angry and disappointed. You are unsure with whom you are disappointed the most. Him or yourself. Who do you hate the most? Yourself for being insecure... Or him for all the heartache and pain he has caused you and your children. He shattered all the dreams and expectations you had. He is the reason you feel powerless and so out-of-control. Your friends are so fake, and at times your family as well. They don't see things from your point of view.
Yes, I lived on this tightrope every day, for months. Nothing anybody says can repair the financial
carnage wreaked upon us at a time like this.
Acknowledge it: You are scared to death!
Scared of being alone and not being able to make it financially. Scared to run a household on your own. Scared he does not pay maintenance. Scared you won't be able to support your children.
How you can change this today.
It’s easy to think there is no hope when reading failed marriage figures. It’s actually quite frightful. That’s not true. This course offers you powerful tools to guarantee you will survive – if you choose to.
You and your children will be fine when you apply these practical plans. Happiness, health and wealth will be yours again! Guaranteed. Whoa! Before you move on. I bet you are wondering how I can make these outrageous claims. How can I share these secrets nobody else is sharing?
Easy! Pain! Lots of pain!
I lost everything in this messy, stinky, ugly call it what you want, divorce. Business, income, cars, husband, home, family and friends. And the most painful part I lost is every stitch of self-respect. The loneliest and scariest time of my life. Until I saw ho many other women were falling into the same pit. Facing these fears and losses.
When you see how obvious this approach is you will understand why...
- Your doctor does not want you to know this.
- Your lawyer won't tell you this...
- Your friends cannot tell you this...
- I want you to know this.
Do you know what it feels like having your sister walk into your shop and ask you: "Are you blind, or just plain stupid?" "Can't you see how he is fondling the staff in front of you?"
To walk into a restaurant and have the owner tell you: What a beautiful bouquet of flowers he had come in with after booking a romantic table for 2... Only to see a strange woman meet him there? To find sexual arousal tablets in his bedside drawer?
To top it all, he told everybody that I was a Lesbian.
He even got hold of my facebook password and went into my profile, changed my status, to try and proof what he had been saying was the truth.
Look at what I posted.
Pretending not knowing who did it. But I wanted him to read it.
I made a joke about it. He went around telling everybody that I had a split personality...
I had to enter my own house like a thief, pack up and put everything into storage or I would have nothing.
My eldest daughter moved into my sister's place... They are very status aware...she totally took her father's side. He made it a choice for the children. At a tender age, my children had to decide who is wrong and who is right. Losing a child alive because of a selfish father, who only thought of himself...
As if this is not enough I was told by my family it's not so bad... You are making it worse... it's a disgrace to get divorced! Can you believe it? In today's day and age! I had to get a protection order to keep him from attacking me. As soon as he saw I'm not backing down, he started playing sick mind games.
He even went as far as hitting me with the elbow in the face... I had to hide daily from our creditors as they were not paid. Even the police, as people were chasing after me for his debt. This was so humiliating. After he had liquidated our company I had to jump...how could he do this? I was on my knees and some days could not even crawl. I sat stuck in one place...to move the one leg in front of the other felt like a person asking me to cut my one arm off and still be okay. I was sequestrated and for me, this was the lowest low in life.
All that I’d worked for gone, poof! Just like that my whole world fell apart. And now my enemy was the man I’d devoted my life to. In this world, there is no sore as sore as heart sore! Heartache and relationships hurt so deep... it is not something that you can just fix. The bank fetched the SUV we were driving- from me.
Now, this for me was heartbreaking. He was only looking at his own pocket from now and I had to fight my own battles. I was accused of stealing money from the business daily. Only to find out after our divorce that in actual fact he was the one that made the money to vanish. How can someone let things go so far...
Enough !!!
That was the last straw. Whilst I felt like I was having a total breakdown I had to deal with the most horrific rumors being spread by him. I was feeling used, abused, alone, afraid, furious, full of hatred, cheated on, lied to, deceived, worthless and degraded.
In short: I was scared shitless!!!
This change is terrifying. I feel your pain! This is the worst thing that can happen to a woman. And yet it happens to us as women every 36 seconds, and nobody to help us with that pain. This is what makes me so passionate about sharing my experiences with you. To help you avoid making the same "boo-boos" I did.
My problem:
I learned this at the wrong time. The right time is before the brown stuff hits the fan. Or else it's like trying to fix a punctured tire on a moving car. Once you understand how to rebuild your life you will...
- see the beauty in everything again
- live fearlessly
- love with all your heart
- appreciate what you have
- love and accept yourself as you are
- don't change, be yourself
The reason we lose everything is that we get too comfortable with each other. We forget the important things in life. This is no excuse for him to do what he did, don’t misunderstand me here! This allows the “other lady” into his life. The excitement or should I say “chase” in him - ignited by this little spark in his life. The thrill of her touch is more than his “brain” can handle at this stage of his life. And oh boy, don’t forget this new young little bomb has her eyes focused on nothing other than his money. (our money) Believe you me, he will do what he can to keep her happy, because his ego is so big!
Your in-laws are always taking his side. You are and have always been the proverbial "thorn in their side." Don't fool yourself, they will never accept you! You became a threat to them the minute that the engagement ring was on your finger. Nothing, and I mean nothing you do will ever be good enough for them. You are the cause of all the problems and things that go wrong.
- I will show you a simple way to get you through your divorce.
- I will show you how to avoid loads of frustration.
- I will show you how to resolve the challenge around children and divorce.
- I will show you how to help yourself escape pain during this time.
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Here you will learn a lot about
- forgiving
- loving
- being thankful
- caring
- family
But what if you learn how to live again? So your future cannot come under threat again?
This concept has saved hundreds of people heartache. Enabling them to lead happy and fulfilled lives with their loved ones. Bringing wealth, health, happiness and blessings into their lives again. What more do you want for you and your children?
- A Safe place to live
- Knowing your life assets are protected
- Financial stability/freedom
- Continuous joy
- Risk-free life
- Solve these problems yourself
- Use a bit of common sense
- Change your way of thinking
- Let go of the past
- Make time every day to “work” on yourself
These ideas are open secrets. Dig deep enough and you will find the answer. It helps not to be so hard on yourself. Go back to your childhood, remember the happy, carefree days. Re-look at how you do things. Make time for "me-time" and use it as such "me-time." Alone time! Look at all the trap we fall into. We are all in the same leaky boat. We are too busy handling daily emergencies. We don't have any time left to look at our personal situation. After all, you are married, have kids, a house, a nice car what more do you want? the answer is LOT'S.
I want to be accepted for who I am...the funny...mad hatter...loud singing, laughing and happy go lucky person I am. To be loved unconditionally... Yes, not just when you feel like spending a bit of time with me. To spend time with me and the children, be it a trip to the park or a picnic on the beach. Accept and love them as they are ours! Not just the result of a night of lovemaking.
Leave your parents who could never accept me, to stand by my side. Give everything like I gave this marriage everything. Most of us spend hundreds of hours a month focused on the nitty-gritty and less than one hour a month handling family matters.
We have the resources buried deep within us and can survive lots of mistakes. With my help we can dig into these resources and bail ourselves out. We walk a tightrope everyday. a Single slip hurts like hell. a Large mistake can cost us dearly and sink our entire venture. Suck our homes and personal life, wealth and health with it.
No one should go through a divorce alone.
Join this course
- You get a lifetime of access to the lectures
- Ask my help anytime
I know how difficult it is to get streetwise advice when things go wrong. I was there as well. These methods would have saved me a lot of pain and heartache.
- The money I lost.
- All my possessions and my family.
- And stopped me being judged by everyone.
- Losing my child.
- Months of heartache.
The sooner you put these ideas into practice in your own life, the sooner they will take effect. The best time to implement these powerful practices in your own life is NOW! Don't become a statistic.
Right now you face a choice.
Stay where you are right now in life or you can take the route I took and walk out a better person. Choose to apply the principles I did and within a month you can be a different person. No matter what your current scenario looks like.
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Let's be honest - there is no quick fix for this one! But if you follow what I share with you in this course, you'll find stability in your: Wealth, Health & Relationships again. And it will assist you in finding your own anchor point in your life and moving on from there. The process starts with allowing one's self the freedom to grieve and ends with moving on with one's life.
The cost of making a mistake during this time in your life...could be devastating and ruin not only your future but your children's future as well.
You will learn how to reclaim your life and get it back again. In short, to survive the divorce. Come with an open mind and you will experience the transformation for yourself. You will survive the effect that divorce has on you. And if this course does not help you with all of the above, contact me within 30 days and I will gladly refund you.
Your Instructor
In 2010 I went through a traumatic, emotional and life-changing divorce. One that cost me everything I love and owned, including one of my daughters. As well as my family. ( Yes, my own family.) For the simple reason I was going against their principle.
I had such big dreams. Not only did they fall apart, but my entire life as well. I had to deal with emotions, finances and make decisions. I was completely lost and afraid. With due respect “it is scary” I had to do something, but what? It felt like nobody understood.
Nobody wants to get involved. If someone was willing to help it was at my expense. I needed help. Especially with the financial aspect. I wondered how I would survive. Having no job I felt alone and vulnerable. I learned how people judge during a divorce.
Today I can show you everything I wish I knew before I signed my divorce.